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What
are the principal types of cemeteries, and
how do they differ? |
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Cemeteries
usually are divided into two broad categories:
traditional cemeteries and memorial parks
or gardens. A traditional cemetery, the type
used for many generations, has upright monuments,
usually made of stone.
Memorial parks and gardens are a newer type
of cemetery introduced about 75 years ago.
They are cemeteries without tombstones: parks
and gardens where bronze memorials are placed
level with the ground to blend with the beauty
of the landscape. They often feature expansive
lawns and gardens, as well as fountains, sculpture
or memorial architecture.

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Does a
body have to be embalmed before it is buried
or cremated? |
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No, embalming
is not required for burial. It is your choice.
It may depend on such factors as whether the
family has selected a public viewing with
an open casket; or to enhance the deceased's
appearance for a private family viewing; if
the body is going to be transported by air
or rail; or because of the length of time
prior to the burial.

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Why is
having a place to visit so important? |
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Because
it provides a focal point for memorializing
the deceased. To remember, and to be remembered,
are natural human needs. Throughout human
history, memorialization of the dead has been
a key component of almost every culture. The
Washington Monument, Tomb of the Unknowns
and Vietnam "Wall" in Washington,
D.C., are examples of memorialization which
demonstrate that, throughout our history,
we have always honored our dead. Psychologists
say that remembrance practices, from the funeral
or memorial service to permanent memorialization,
serve an important emotional function for
survivors by helping to bring closure and
allowing the healing process to begin. Providing
a permanent resting place for the deceased
is a dignified treatment for a loved one's
mortal remains, which fulfills the natural
human desire for memorialization.

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What are
opening and closing fees? |
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Opening and closing
fees can include 50 or more separate services
provided by the cemetery. Typically, the opening
and closing fee includes administration and
permanent record keeping (determining ownership,
obtaining permission and the completion of
other documentation which may be required,
entering the interment particulars in the
interment register and maintaining all legal
files); opening and closing the grave (locating
the grave and laying out the boundaries, excavating
and filling the interment space); installation
and removal of the lowering device; leveling,
tamping, re-grading and sodding the grave
site and leveling and re-sodding the grave
if the earth settles.

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What happens
if I buy cemetery property here in advance
and later move to another area? |
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Many cemeteries
now belong to credit exchange programs which
allow for a dollar-for-dollar transfer of
services and merchandise between participating
cemeteries. When prearranging, be sure to
ask your local provider about exchange privileges
offered.

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What is endowment
care? |
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A portion
of the purchase price of the grave is contributed
to an endowment care fund. Income from the
endowment care fund is used to provide regular
care and maintenance at the cemetery. Regular
care and maintenance activities can include
cutting grass, regrading of graves, planting
and caring for trees, maintenance of water
supply systems, roads, drainage, etc. The
minimum amount to be contributed to the endowment
care fund is normally governed by law.

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What purpose
does a funeral serve? |
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The funeral
and the ceremony that accompanies it are indeed
very important. For those who are left behind,
a funeral provides a place for family and
friends to gather for support and to reminisce;
an opportunity to celebrate the life and accomplishments
of a loved one; a chance to say goodbye; and
the focal point from which the healing process
can begin. The funeral identifies that a person's
life has been lived, not that a death has
occurred. It is also important to notify the
community that this person has died. There
are people beyond the immediate family who
have the right to grieve a death. For instance,
what would have happened in the United States
if there had not been a funeral for President
John F. Kennedy?

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Is a funeral
or memorial service always held in a funeral
home or place of worship? |
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A service
can usually be held at any location that family
and friends feel would be comfortable and
appropriate. Your funeral director can assist
with arranging a meaningful service.

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Is it
okay to have a viewing and not a service?
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Yes, if that is
the wish of the family, the funeral director
will arrange designated times for calling
hours, have the times published in the newspaper
and simply add to the obituary that services
will be private or at the convenience of the
family. This information will make it clear
to the public as to arrangements, and fulfill
the wishes of the family.

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Does the
price I receive from the funeral home include
everything? |
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The Funeral
Director is responsible for explaining all
the charges that specifically pertain to the
funeral home's services offered and merchandise
sold stated on its general price list. Any
additional charges may fall under the category
of cash advances. These additional charges
might be for opening and closing the grave,
clergy honorarium, newspaper notices, flowers and
organist church sexton.

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How can I personalize a funeral service?
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One way
is to bring personal items into the funeral
home to be displayed in or near the casket.
Example: An avid golfer might have a favorite
putter placed in the casket. An avid hunter
or fisherman might have some of their personal
effects or trophies displayed on a memory
table. A person who quilted could have the
casket draped with a quilt they made. An artist
could have their art work displayed. A person's
favorite rocking chair could be brought to
the funeral home and placed next to the casket.

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What if
I do not wish to use all the services a funeral
home has to offer? |
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The Federal
Trade Commission Funeral Rule requires that
all funeral homes itemize their charges for
professional services, facilities and motor
equipment and that they provide a General
Price List to all clients. You have the right
to select and pay for only those services
you choose to utilize.
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